
Until recently, I've been keeping the deepest thoughts inside myself, just because it wasn't as "popular" with the crowd I ran with. Even though I still run with that crowd, I no longer feel I have to keep that part inside of me, because it was truly itching me every time we talked about it.
There are a few stereotypes about myself that I'd just love to get a hold of and discuss. Firstly, there is a myth that all gay men want to be women and all lesbians want to be men. Obviously, this is not true, and I thank your chosen higher-power that it is coming out-of-style to think of something like that. However, since that stereotype has run out of juice, it leads to the trend that it is unpopular to dress or act effeminate because it would be proving the first stereotype.
-HOLD UP!!- How can I win?!
I understand that some and most gay men are perfectly happy with the masculinity that being male provides them. However, some men like the more feminine ways of life. I happen to be one of those men. My favorite colour, though I would never say before, is pink. It always has been and will forever be. I appreciate the feminine style of clothes. Granted things would look funny placed on a male body, but that doesn't mean I can't so appreciate for it. If something looks good, why can't I wear it?
Just because I appreciate and imitate the feminine way of life does not mean I want to be a female. No thanks, women can have that! I just want to be treated as a male who happens to dress and act effeminate, not as a woman in a man's outfit.
+Current Music: Don't Get It Twisted // Gwen Stefani
1 comment:
haha, i love this blog!! Who wouldn't love pink? And like of course you wou;d appreciate effeminate things, they're beautiful!! And people like you and I LOVE beautiful things. Don't be afraid of stereotypes. If they weren't true sometimes, then they wouldn't exist. But anyways I love you and your pink ass. It looks good on you! {well...if you wore it I'm sure it would anyway!!}
ILU!!!!
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